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From: Delbert McLintock <dmc@con.invalid>
Newsgroups: rec.food.cooking
Subject: Re: Tuesday Night Dinner Plans? 9/17/2024
Date: Thu, 26 Sep 2024 09:47:18 -0600
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D wrote:
> 
> 
> On Thu, 25 Sep 2024, Leonard Blaisdell wrote:
> 
>> On 2024-09-23, D <nospam@example.net> wrote:
>>
>>> That would be a nice way to go! =) I think a bright midsummers night,
>>> sitting at my beloved fishing lake would be a nice final scene of the 
>>> saga
>>> of me! Way better than rotting in some hospital bed with loads of other
>>> sick people around you.
>>
>>
>> I always thought that I'd like to die that way. And then...two of my
>> closest friends went fishing in a remote Nevada location. One died of a
>> cardiac event in a float tube.
>> There were other people around the lake, and emergency services arrived
>> in about three hours. They took the body, and my other friend spent
>> another three hours driving back to town to notify the other guys wife.
>> He could have called her, but I think he did it right.
>> Then, I rethought my own position on dying remotely. It wasn't the
>> deceased, it was my other friend that bore the burden.
>>
> 
> It is an interesting perspective. The time factor does play a role. I 
> knew my mother was going to die for at least 1 year or so before it 
> happened. All words were said, everything forgiven, everything at peace. 
> But if the final moment would have been in the country side, that would 
> have been nicer for her, than the hospital bed. At least everyone she 
> loved was by her side when it happened.

Has she been back to "visit" or left any physical signs from beyond for you?