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From: zen cycle <funkmasterxx@hotmail.com>
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> floriduh dumbass wrote::
>> On Sat, 5 Apr 2025 08:37:30 -0400, zen cycle
>> <funkmasterxx@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>
>>>> On 4/4/2025 2:36 PM, floriduh dumbass wrote:
>>>>> On Fri, 4 Apr 2025 13:53:47 -0400, Frank Krygowski
>>>>> <frkrygow@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> On 4/4/2025 9:20 AM, Catrike Ryder wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> There are many ways to learn things, but when a person responds to
>>>>>>> another's stated opinion with, "lets discuss that," it can only mean
>>>>>>> they want to change your mind about it.
>>>>>> You're demonstrating gross inexperience with intellectual human
>>>>>> interaction.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> "Let's discuss that" does not "only mean" anything. It may _sometimes_
>>>>>> mean they hope to change your mind. But it may also mean "That's
>>>>>> interesting, and there's much to explore so we can learn more about it."
>>>>>> It may mean "I agree, and I'd like to review reasons why I think it's
>>>>>> true."
>>>>>
>>>>> If a person was open to a discussion, they'd probably say someting
>>>>> like, "here's an idea, lets discuss it. On the other hand, a person
>>>>> stating an opinion is not suggesting a discussion. If another person
>>>>> comes along and says "lets discuss that," they're looking to change
>>>>> your mind.
>>>
>>> Which is only because you regard personal interactions of any type as a
>>> personal affront. It's a characteristic of narcissism.
>>
>> Poor Junior doesn't understand what narcissism is all about.
>> Narcissists seek out personal interactions. Their self image depends
>> on them....

Poor dumbass thinks he's the only person in this forum with any 
knowledge on the subject.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201601/7-signs-of-a-covert-introvert-narcissist

>>
>>> It's obviously
>>> never occured to you that they may be interested in understanding your
>>> position.
>>
>> Asking a person to further explain their opinion is definitely an
>> intrusion.

Only to someone who can't substantiate their opinion

>>
>>>>>> It may mean many things. But since you're a person who bragged about
>>>>>> snarling at strangers who have said "Hello" on your bike trail, it's not
>>>>>> surprising that you see "Let's discuss that" as an attack.
>>>>>
>>>>> Not neccesarily an attack, but most certainly an incursion.
>>>
>>> "how dare you give me a friendly hello"...JFC what an asshole.
>>>
>>
>> I'm open to a "good morning," but if a stranger walks up to me on the
>> street and says "hello," I'll assume there's something wrong with
>> him/her.

Yup, because you're the type of narcissist who immediate thinks someone 
is beneath you.

> On a bike ride, an open handed wave is the best I can do.

And you've admitted you don't do even that.
Miserable old prick